I’m sure everyone goes through that “one” breakup.
The one breakup where you have never felt pain on this kind of level. No matter what ever horrible thing that other person has put you through. You know that deep down you will never forget them. Sure we all move on and our interests follow other people. Not all of us hang on to that drop of love left and it’s not always necessary. Just know that there are others out there that have gone through it too. I’ve heard stories of relationships that have been horrible from the start. It’s just that one relationship that even after you know you were supposed to leave them before, it still hurts.
Everyone has their own way to cope with the loss and not every word of advice will help.
When I went through my rough break up, it took me about a year to get back on my feet. I knew that I wasn’t going to find love soon. Knowing what had happened in my last relationship, I didn’t want to waste my time and effort on another girl. This girl had to mean something to me. They had to really connect in a way that was better than the last. It took many years and I pushed many girls away. They just weren’t as exciting as I had hoped for. The biggest thing that helped me move forward from that breakup was I had a hand written diary of my feelings. It was personal and only one person read a few pages. I kept it going for a while by myself. It was my way of talking without really hearing what others had to say. I didn’t want to listen to anything they said about my situation because what do they know about me.
The girl that left has now married the guy she dumped me for. I couldn’t be any happier for them. Everyone knows that the relationship I have now is better than any girl I have dated. I don’t talk to my ex and I haven’t really had a reason to soon after we were apart.
This isn’t a sub-post toward any particular person or group of people. Ive just been realizing how far I have come in the past 4 or 5 years. Most things past high school have been a blur to me. Friends have come and gone. Places have been visited near and far. Countless amounts of concerts have been seen and miles of roads have been traveled.
I will always say this, I do not hate anyone and I refuse to hold grudges against people. Old friends that hate me, just remember that I’m still here giving you the thumbs up for everything you do.